Gave up the original ambition and ambition, not the reality is too cruel, but we have become realistic

2022-04-23 0 By

Many times we can always console others like a wise man, but torture ourselves like a fool.01 although the truth we all understand, but the resentment will complain, the scold will scold, the cry will still cry, after all, the heart is not the truth can let go.Most of the time with their own difficult is often their own.Each of us may at some point don’t want to face the reality, like ostrich hiding in your world forever licking their wounds, always live in their own fantasy is not willing to come out, but when you seek is his fantasy, when is the harsh reality break, you face is the real society, understand that life has too many helpless, there are too many restrictions.Sometimes we know there is no possibility, but we are reluctant to let go. We finally give up our original ambition and ambition, not because the reality is too cruel, but because we have become sober and realistic.02 life is always ups and downs, in this changing years, there is no if in life, only consequences and results, the past no longer come back, come back no longer perfect.There are no obstacles that can’t be overcome, only people who can’t be overcome.One day you will look back at the people and things that you have been through. No matter how big the things were then, they will seem just like that now. You will even feel that you were too fussy and childish at that time.No one cares about your painstaking effort process, outsiders only see the results, their own support process, and so we understand this truth, we will not be in front of people hypocrisy, everywhere to tell for comfort, often analyze in order to understand.In fact, sometimes everyone is very tired, under the pressure of life, always have to wear their own role mask, see a lot of people but can not be exposed at will, hate a lot of people but can not easily turn over……Sometimes it’s sunny and sometimes it’s dark and cloudy. That’s what life is all about. Most of the time, life is about forcing us to be meek.Life is a journey to an unknown destination. Most of the time, we don’t know what kind of future we are going to meet.But sometimes, we just blindly run, but forget the meaning of travel.Life, who on the way forward to see the scenery more, who in the rough road more than a few steps, these are the value of living in the world.Life is loaded with too much regret and helplessness, give others a smile, give yourself a warm, has nothing to do with ups and down, regardless of edge.The world is so small, it’s like when you turn around, you don’t know who you will meet. The world is so big, it’s like when you turn around, you don’t know who will disappear.After you meet all kinds of people, you realize that the more people you know, except your parents, there will be no one in the world to treat you with heart and lungs, no one to trust you unconditionally and completely, and no one to treat you all the time. Life is so long and so far, you have no choice but to rely on yourself.Your future depends on many things, but most of all on yourself.Life always moves forward in its own rhythm. It is impossible to be nice to everyone all the time, and it is impossible to be mean to everyone.No matter how nice you are, not everyone will like you. Some envy you, some hate you, some envy you, and some look down on you. What you do can’t please everyone, so don’t lose your nature in order to please others.04 years gradually away young frivolous, also slowly clear lengnuanzizhi, time will slowly precipitation, some people will be in your heart slowly blurred.Learn to let go, you need their own happiness.Life is not something for nothing, nor enjoy privileges, as a man sows, so he shall reap a harvest, really good luck, comes from effort, ability, courage, and so on, really good luck, is hidden in efforts, not only hard to earn much money, more time is a kind of dignity, a kind of responsibility, in order to a mission,Is to make their own life become stronger, independent, complete.We all have to travel and say goodbye to our immature selves.It may be hard, it may be lonely, but through the pain, we can grow.Maturity is more important than success. It is more important to be a man of value than to be a man of money.Life is always like this. You can’t be satisfied all the time.But we still have to live passionately.There are many things worth loving in one’s life. Don’t be discouraged because one is not satisfied with it. Although the reality is very cruel, people are alive because they have dreams and want to realize their dreams, so we can live in this reality full of despair.The road of life is not afraid of anything, afraid of their own defeat.With no one to shelter from the wind and rain, they hold up a piece of sky.Don’t feel sorry for yourself. It’s hard for anyone to live.Life is not easy, there is no need for others to understand and identify with everything, quietly live their own life.Be sure that you have never had any regrets in your life which only lasts for a few decades. Laugh or cry as you like, and it’s meaningless to oppress yourself.Live for yourself, don’t take the evaluation of others too seriously, everything as long as the heart is clear conscience, don’t care too much.The so-called life, is to listen to endless lies, can not see through the heart, can not put down the care, experience endless ups and downs.There are bitter and happy life is full, people’s life no one everywhere scenery all the best, indifferent, a little bit.Keep a normal state of mind, if the heart is young, years are not old.Those secretly slip away time, vicissitudes of life our face, but the abundance of our life, even if the youth is no longer, even if the old, we must always keep a young heart, the courage to pursue dreams, not afraid of failure, no regrets, do not abandon, do not let life leave too much regret.(The picture comes from the network, thank the original picture author, if there is infringement, please contact the author of this article to deal with)